Letters from Lucille …
October 16th, 2008
Hi Ken:
I’m sorry, I won’t be able to be at your jvAlert Live as much as I would like to.
My X-Hubby that stays in my house that I told you about quite awhile ago had a severe Heart Attack Last Fri. He is back here now, but he is not doing very well. The Visiting Nurse was here today. She is trying to get him into a nursing home. She called several and none of them has a bed for him. Thank you so much for thinking of me on the way to the Airport.
You said in this email that you have a good Program for beginners, that is the one I am interested in if you still have room for me. Knock them dead at jvAlert Live. Lucille
October 26th, 2008
Hello Ken,
I am so happy to hear from you. I wanted to be at jvAlert Live , but I couldn’t get anyone to come with me. I have to be pushed around in a Wheel Chair. I have 4 wonderful Sons, but they all work a lot and didn’t want to come with me. I will make one of the ones you are scheduling in this email. All of the Dates sound good to me.
Ken do you know how I can stop some or all of the Spam Email that I get?? I get over 1,000 a day and almost all of them are Spam. By the time I delete all of them I have no time to take care of Business. Please help me if you can. OK?? Thanks, Lucille
November 5th, 2008
Hi Ken,
Thanks for asking for my opinion on the designs. Most of them are very nice. I like the one in the first pic of the original ones. It’s colors are perfect and the lines are clean and show very nicely. That’s only my opinion, but I have been known to have good taste on things like that. I hope this helps you to decide. Talk soon, Lucille
P.S. I listened in on the Webinar from 9:00 P.M. until 11:05 when I had to use the restroom. It was very interesting. Keep up the good work.
November 20th, 2008
Hi Ken,
Thank you so much for the kind words. You just made my day. I don’t ever hear anything like that at home. I have told you about my home life. I have been trying to get my X into a Nursing Home, but they all have a waiting List a mile long. The Visiting Nurse sat here for most of the day calling around trying to get him in one, no Luck.
Ken you are the sweetest person that I have ever talked to on the Internet!!!!! I didn’t much like that Sales Tactic that you used about someone trying to hurt me.
I am scared to death at night. I have a lock on my bedroom door. When I was 15 I was at my Aunt’s house for the night. She went out with her boyfriend Bill. About 2:00 AM someone came into my bedroom. I screamed and said who is it??. He said it’s Bill honey. I said you scared me to death. He sat down in a chair and started removing his shoes, then his trousers and shirt. He kept calling me my aunts name. I kept telling him that I wasn’t her.
He got in bed with me. he was trying to put his arms around me. I finally convinced him that I wasn’t her and he said what the hell I’m going to sleep, and he did. as soon as he did I sneaked out of bed and turned the light on and he was not my aunt’s Boyfriend that I knew,
When my aunt saw him she said for me to go in the kitchen and when I did she slapped him as hard as she could across the face. He jumped up and said what’s wrong honey. She asked him what he was doing there and he said I just wanted to see you honey. she asked him: since when do you come over and crawl in bed with me!!
She told him that I was only 15 and she told him to get his clothes on and get out and don’t ever come back.
She told him that I have a bad Heart and he could have caused me to have a Heart Attack. He got dressed and ran down the stairs as fast as he could and she never saw him again.
I have been scared to be by myself ever since then. See how it hit me and I bet it did some of the other Ladies too. But anyway I have forgotten all about it.
Ken about you promoting your friends Property. As buisy as you are I would tell them I’m sorry but I just can’tn make the time to do it, and let it go at that. You’re not obligated to do that for all of them, are you?? I’m sorry this is so long. But when you tell someone something, I think they need to have som back ground about it. don’t you.
Thanks Ken, Lucille
December 24th, 2008
Hi Ken,
Boy do I have good news for you !!! I have my first Website set up. I set up the Autoresponder. I hope to be making some money with it by the New Year. This is the first time I have been able to get a Website set up correctly. I am so proud of myself right now..
I am sorry that you had trouble with Internet and Links. I hope it stays fixed. If you celebrate Christmas. Merry Christmas to you and your Family.
We have 2 feet of snow now and they are predicting 3 to 5 more inches tonight. Plus freezing rain.
I won’t be able to go to jvAlert Live as much as I would like to. I can’t afford it plus both of my Knees have gone out and now I can’t walk. I have an Electric Wheel Chair, but I don’t have anyone to come with me to help me.
I wish you would come to Detroit or within a couple hundred miles. I would be there for sure.
Thanks Ken, Lucille
P.S.. The 27th. is my Birthday. I will be 75 years old.
December 30th, 2008
Hi Ken,
Thanks for the email!! Yes, I had a very nice Christmas. 3 of my 4 Sons were here with me. The other one wasn’t feeling well.
He lost his Wife to Cancer last year. Since then he really doesn’t like to be at Family Get Togethers. He was only 50 when she died. They didn’t have any Children together. They were married 24 years.
I would like to get him to come with me to JValert. He is very Literate on the Computer.
I have been trying for a year to get him to come to my house and help me get my Website up and running. He said he has lost interest in Computers.
I can’t come by myself. I am in an Electric Wheel Chair and need someone to help me in and out of it. I am dying to be at one of them. I will be at one next summer. If I possibly can.
Ken, while you are there please think of me and how much I want to be there with you. Knock them Dead especially for me. Ken,
January 10th, 2009
Hi Ken,
Sorry, but I can’t be there. I don’t have anyone to come with me to help me with my Electric Wheel Chair. I am having Surgery on my right Knee just as soon as I can get in to have the Pre-Opt Testing. I can’t stand on my feet at all now.
Since I can’t be there, think of me and as usual knock them Dead for me. OK??
Thanks Ken, Lucille
February 4th, 2009
Hi Ken,
I am so sorry that I won’t be coming to jvAlert Live in Orlando. There isn’t anything that I would rather do, than to be there and to meet everyone. Maybe I could get some of my Websites up and running.
Ken I am CRIPPLED from my Waist down to the bottom of my Feet. I am in a Wheelchair and can walk only a few steps at a time. I don’t have anyone to come with me to help me out of and into my chair.
This Cold Weather just absolutely kills me. It makes my Feet and Legs hury so bad. I take Norco 10/325 for the Pain. Doesn’t help much!!! I am going to try and make it to one this summer. If I can make it. Do you have a Schedule for this Summer yet?? Let me know when you have it.OK??
Thanks, Lucille
P.S. Think of me when you are on Stage and as usual Knock them Dead,!!!!
March 4th, 2009
Hi Ken,
You are so sweet!! You are always scared that you will hurt someone’s Feelings. Not to worry about me !! I wish you could rember that I am confined to a Wheel Chair and I need someone to travel with me to help me when I need it.
I have a new Electric Whelchair, but I still need someone to help me sometimes. I am going to try to make one of the JV Alert meetings when warm weather gets here. If you are going to have one thats not too far away.
Ken you go to your Meeting and have the time of your life. It sounds like it will be great. So as usual: Think of me and Knock them dead. I will see you when you get back.
We will talk soon.
Lucille
March 17th, 2009
Hi Ken,
I didn’t want to fill out a Ticket. I just want to talk to you. I would love to be a helper at JV100. I can’t, because I am in a Wheel Chair most of the time. I can’t take over 3 or 4 steps. I am so weak in my Back. Hips, Legs, Knees and Feet and Legs that I can’t do anything. I can’t even cook myself a meal. I have a Live IN Caregiver.
I want to that you for asking me and I’m sorry that I can’t do it.
Thanks again, Lucille
April 10th, 2009
Hi Ken,
I’m sorry, but I can’t make it to jvAlert Live . I am having Trouble with my Back,Hips and Feet & Legs. My Feet are swollen up so much I can’t bend my Knees. As soon as I get the swelling down I am going to have a Torn Rotator Cuff fixed.
My Shoulder is Killing me with Pain. I don’t know why I have the Water in my Legs.
Ken I don’t feel well. I am going to lie down for awhile.
Talk Soon, Lucille
April 24th, 2009
Hello Ken,
You must be a Mind Reader. I have been thinking about writing a Book for 30 years. I have 2 possible Subjects.
I was going to write you for a long time to see if you wanted to write it and we could split the income from it. I am reasonably sure either one would be a Best Seller.
If anyone can do ot I know you can.
Thanks Ken, Lucille
P.S. I’m sorry, but I didn’t get this in time. It was 11:00 PM when I got online tonight.
April 30th, 2009
Hi Ken,
I would LOVE to be there with you and all of the others!!! I am getting over the Swine Flu. I have never been so sick in my life. I never want to go through that again. I nearly died one morning at 4:00 AM.
My body was already getting cold. So cold it hurt. I Prayed to God to let me live because I am not ready to go yet. He had to hear me because a couple of minutes later I managed to get out of bed and move around until I got warmed up again. Then I was afraid to go back to sleep, afraid I wouldn’t wake up again. That was really scary.
I am not afraid to die, I just don’t want to do it now. I hope you don’t think I’m crazy. I don’t drink either. LOL.
Everything sounds so exciting there. I would like very much to be there too. When you are on Stage think of me and knock them dead ! talk soon, Lucille
P.S. I am going to do everything in my power to be in DC with all of you.
May 31st, 2009
Hello Ken,
I am sorry but I won’t be coming to DC. I was in the Hospital all last week. I went in with Pains in my Chest. They did Test’s all week, Thank God I don’t need a By-Pass or Stent. I just needed some good Rest. They did a Heart Catherization.
I feel better than I have for a year. I had Swine Flu in March. It lasted for a whole month. I didn’t think I was going to make it. I have never been so sick in my Life.
I sure wish I could be in DC with all of you. Maybe next time. Think of me while you are there and Knock Them Dead.
Talk soon, Lucille
June 12th, 2009
Hi Ken,
I would love to stop by and meet with all of you, but I have some very bad news. My Son is in the Hospital Seriously Ill. He has Pancreatitis and Kidney Failure. The Dr. has stopped all Meds and Nourishment. Ken he is going to Die. He is in the Hospice Part of the Hospital. They are just giving him Pain Meds to keep him comortable.
Hospice said that he can go anytime or he could live another 2 weeks. I am so broken up I am beside myself. Please say a Prayer for him.
Thank you Ken,
Lucille
June 18th, 2009
Hi Ken,
My Son Died on June 14th. His Kidneys, Liver and Pancreas shut down. He was a heavy drinker after his Wife Died 4 years ago, but he had completly stopped. It had already done the damage that couldn’t be repaired.
Needless to say my heart is breaking. I don’t know how I am going to get through the Services for him. I have 4 Sons that with the help of my Mother and Brother I raised them without their Father. He ran off the last time I was Pregnant.
John is the one that Died, He was 53 until June 25th.
My other 3 Sons are wonderful. I am so glad that I have them to help me through this. My oldest Son was holding him when he Died.
I’m sorry to bother you with this, I just thought you would be interested in knowing.
Talk soon,
Lucille
My response to Lucille …
Lucille,
You are an amazing, courageous woman. Every day you face your challenges, keep on learning and growing and giving support and encouragement to everyone around you.
I can’t begin to imagine how hard this must be for you, but I do know one thing.
You’ve made it this far one day at a time, with the help of friends and the people that you love and who love you.
I have no doubt that you can survive this unimaginable pain to grow, and continue to give your enlightened spirit to everyone around you.
You are that kind of woman.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. There is no wisdom that I can give you to take you past your pain, but to love and be loved.
You are part of the entire jvAlert Live family, even though you’ve never been able to be there with us physically, you are always there in spirit.
I’m sure that there is not a member of that family who doesn’t love you right now.
All the best,
Ken


















